I’m just going to get right to it— My (25f) boyfriend (28m) likes to be called “daddy” in bed while we’re being intimate. I’ve obliged to this request but it’s starting to creep me out and I’ve decided I don’t want to do it anymore. He is not happy with this and insists it has nothing to do with the connotation of the word, he just simply enjoys hearing me say it. Since he wasn’t budging on the issue, I told him I’d like for him to call me “grandma” in bed as a compromise. He didn’t like this option and said it was giving him visuals he would prefer not to have. (Like ok join the fucking club) Anyway, the last time he tried to initiate intimacy with me, I started to refer to myself as “grandma” in the 3rd person (do you like when grandma does that, etc) and he FLEW off the handle. Said I ruined the mood, made him feel gross and I was being ridiculous. I think I proved my point but he thinks I’m being an asshole so, AITA?
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