I don’t give two shits if this post offends you. I don’t care if you think I’m a golddigger, or ridiculous for demanding what every woman deserves.

I refuse to accept anything less than an expensive conflict free diamond ring. Those are my standards; I don’t care about yours.

I refuse to accept any less because of the following:

– If a ring is a piece of jewellery I’ll be wearing for the rest of my life, a minimum 10k investment isn’t insane in the grand scheme of things.

– If a man is expecting me to carry his child and go through the painful process of pregnancy, the least he can do is show me how much he truly values me.

– If a man is expecting me to do emotional labor for him and spend the rest of my life with him being his support system, a beautiful ring is a small ask.

– Men know that diamond rings are also a way to posture to other men on the fact they can take care of their partners by providing an expensive ring. When he sees other men looking at my ring, he wants the other men to know that I’m well taken care of and that he truly loves me.

– If a man can afford a gaming system, expensive trips, and nights out “with the boys”, he can afford a piece of jewellery that I would wear for the rest of my life.

– A ring has little resale value, I know that. But if things were to go south, having a piece of jewellery that I would be able to sell for some money would be useful, especially if I was the mother of his children.

I refuse to accept a moissanite without prior consultation from my partner first. Yes, I know that moissanites are quite beautiful and are the fraction of the cost of a real diamond but getting me a moissanite and then explicitly telling me that it’s in fact, a real diamond, is laughable.

I see lots of women posturing to other women about their fake wealth and their “3 carat” diamonds, when in fact, its a moissanite. A lot of these women truly believe that their partner got them a diamond, because that’s what he told them it was. Not only did their partners lie to them, but they’re making their future wives look like laughing stocks in front of other women with false knowledge of what the stone truly is, its value, and a poor attempt at appearing wealthy. Some other submadghostss are filled with women like this. Their proposal was based on a lie.

With this ring, I expect a beautiful proposal. Something thoughtful and meaningful and was prepared for months. Asking someone to marry you is a massive deal, so if a man puts little thought into this and doesn’t really care about what the woman answers with, then he is truly LV.

I also know that lots of LV men will propose with expensive, over the top rings in order to trap you and keep you in the cycle of narcissistic abuse. This post applies to the man I decide to be with forever who I’ve vetted ruthlessly for a long period of time.

I know I’ll get a lot of flack from broke af scrotes in the comments and pickme’s who think the bare minimum ($100 ring) from Walmart is enough. IDGAF if your LV partner proposed to you with a $100 ring from Walmart. Personally, I want to be with someone who truly values me and values the relationship. Remember that we always value the things we pay for/buy. I’m not down for struggle love.

Never ever reduce your standards in fear of offending people. Your standards are valid, and you truly deserve what you want. Never settle just because society tells you that you should accept the bare minimum.


What do you think?

12 Points
Upvote Downvote


Leave a Reply
  1. I πŸ‘ don’t 🚫 give 🎁 two ✌ shits πŸ‘ƒπŸ»πŸ’© if this post 🚩 offends πŸ˜‚πŸ˜€πŸ˜ˆ you πŸ‘‰. I πŸ‘ don’t β›”πŸš« care 😘 if you πŸ‘ˆ think πŸ’­ I’m πŸ’˜ a golddigger πŸ’°, or ridiculous πŸ‘‚πŸ—£ for demanding 😑 what every πŸ’― woman πŸ‘© deserves πŸ‘Œ.

    I πŸ‘ refuse βŒβ›” to accept πŸ˜• anything πŸ’° less ⬇ than an expensive πŸ’΅ conflict πŸ¦… free πŸ’œ diamond πŸ’Ž ring βšœπŸ’. Those are my standards πŸ•΄; I πŸ‘ don’t 🚫 care πŸ’… about πŸ’¦ yours.

    I πŸ‘ refuse πŸ™… to accept πŸ˜• any less βž– because of the following πŸ‘£:

    – If a ring πŸ’ is a piece πŸ— of jewellery πŸ’ŽπŸ’πŸ₯‡ I’ll πŸ“ be wearing πŸ‘• for the rest πŸ˜ͺ of my life πŸ’“, a minimum β¬‡πŸ’²γ€½ 10k πŸ”₯ investment πŸ’°πŸ“ˆ isn’t insane 😜 in the grand πŸ” scheme 😈 of things πŸ“΄.

    – If a man πŸ‘¨ is expecting πŸ‘€ me to carry πŸ”› his πŸ’¦ child πŸ‘Ά and go πŸƒ through the painful πŸ†πŸ˜« process 🏭 of pregnancy ☠, the least ❗ he πŸ‘₯ can do is show πŸ“Ί me how much πŸ”₯ he πŸ‘¨ truly πŸ’― values πŸ‘…πŸ”₯ me.

    – If a man πŸ‘¨πŸΎ is expecting πŸ€” me to do emotional 😒 labor πŸ”¨πŸ”§ for him πŸ‘¨πŸΎ and spend 😡 the rest πŸ˜ͺ of my life πŸ’“ with him πŸ‘΄ being his πŸ’¦πŸ‘¨ support ❀ system πŸ—Ί, a beautiful πŸŒ„ ring πŸ‘‚ is a small πŸ‘Œ ask πŸ™.

    – Men πŸ‘¨πŸΌ know πŸ’­ that diamond πŸ’Ž rings πŸ’πŸ’‹ are also βž•πŸ˜¨ a way ↕ to posture 😫 to other men πŸ‘¨β˜ πŸŒ on πŸ”› the fact πŸ“• they can take πŸ‘Š care πŸ’…πŸ˜³ of their partners πŸ‘­πŸ‘¬πŸ‘« by providing 😩 an expensive πŸ’΅ ring πŸ‘‚. When πŸ‘πŸ˜‚πŸ• he πŸ‘¨πŸ½β€πŸ« sees πŸ‘€ other men πŸ‘¨ looking πŸ‘€ at my ring πŸ’, he πŸ’‡πŸ˜‹πŸ‘¨ wants 😍 the other men πŸ‘¨ to know πŸ’­ that I’m πŸ’˜ well 😀😯 taken πŸ’… care πŸ’… of and that he πŸ‘¨ truly πŸ’― loves ❀ me.

    – If a man πŸ‘¨ can afford πŸ’΅ a gaming 🎱 system πŸ—Ί, expensive πŸ’Έ trips πŸ–πŸ•πŸœ, and nights πŸŒ™ out “with the boys πŸ‘¦”, he πŸ‘₯ can afford πŸ’΅πŸ’³ a piece πŸ— of jewellery πŸ’πŸ’ πŸ’Ž that I πŸ‘ would wear πŸ‘• for the rest πŸ’€ of my life πŸ‘€.

    – A ring πŸ’ has little πŸ‘Œ resale value πŸ‘ͺ, I πŸ‘ know πŸ’­ that. But πŸ‘ if things πŸ•‘ were to go πŸ‘‰πŸ‘Œ south ⬇, having a piece πŸ— of jewellery πŸ’πŸ’Ž that I πŸ‘₯ would be able πŸ’ͺ to sell πŸ’ΈπŸ’³ for some money πŸ€‘πŸ’° would be useful πŸ‘, especially πŸ’― if I πŸ‘ was the mother πŸ‘΅πŸŽ€ of his πŸ’¦ children πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘¦β€πŸ‘¦πŸ‘ΆπŸ»πŸ‘§πŸ».

    I πŸ‘ refuse 🚫 to accept πŸ˜• a moissanite without ❌πŸ˜ͺ prior πŸ”™ consultation πŸ‘” from my partner πŸ‘¦ first πŸ‘†. Yes βœ…, I πŸ‘ know πŸ€” that moissanites are quite βœ… beautiful πŸŒ„ and are the fraction of the cost πŸ’ΈπŸ’° of a real πŸ’― diamond πŸ’ but πŸ‘ getting πŸ‰ me a moissanite and then explicitly telling πŸ—£ me that it’s in fact β˜‘, a real 😍 diamond πŸ’ŽπŸ”Ή, is laughable πŸ˜„.

    I πŸ‘ see πŸ‘€ lots πŸ’― of women πŸ‘§ posturing to other women πŸ‘© about πŸ’¦ their fake πŸ‘» wealth πŸ’Ά and their “3 β­•β„ΉπŸ•˜ carat πŸ₯•β˜‚” diamonds πŸ’, when ⏰ in fact β˜‘, its a moissanite. A lot πŸ’― of these women πŸ‘­πŸ‘© truly πŸ’― believe 🌈 that their partner πŸ‘¦ got πŸ‰ them a diamond πŸ’Ž, because that’s 😦 what he β†©πŸ˜½πŸ‘¨ told πŸ—£ them it was. Not only did their partners πŸ‘­πŸ‘¬πŸ‘« lie 😀 to them, but πŸ‘ they’re πŸ˜œπŸ™… making πŸ–• their future πŸ“‘ wives πŸ‘° look πŸ‘€ like πŸ˜„ laughing πŸ˜… stocks 🧦 in front πŸ” of other women πŸ‘©πŸ½ with false ❌ knowledge πŸŽ“ of what the stone πŸ’Ž truly βœ… is, its value πŸ€‘πŸ’°, and a poor πŸ’Έ attempt 🚫 at appearing πŸ“΅ wealthy πŸ’΅πŸ’΄πŸ’Ά. Some other subreddits πŸ€– are filled πŸ‘‰πŸ‘Œ with women πŸ‘©πŸ» like πŸ‘ this. Their proposal πŸ’ was based πŸ‘Œ on πŸ”› a lie 😀.

    With this ring πŸ‘‚, I πŸ‘₯ expect πŸ€— a beautiful πŸŒ„ proposal πŸ“°. Something πŸ˜… thoughtful 🧐 and meaningful γ€½ and was prepared 😰 for months πŸ—“. Asking πŸ™ someone πŸ‘€ to marry πŸ‘° you πŸ‘ˆ is a massive πŸŒβ€Όβœ– deal 🀝, so if a man πŸ‘¦ puts 😏 little πŸš—πŸ‘Ά thought πŸ€” into this and doesn’t really πŸ’― care πŸ’…πŸ˜¦ about πŸ’¦ what the woman πŸ‘§ answers βœ… with, then he πŸ™‹πŸ‘₯πŸ‘§πŸ½ is truly πŸ’― LV β€πŸ’•.

    I πŸ‘πŸ”Ž also βž• know πŸ’­ that lots πŸ‘β€Ό of LV πŸ›«πŸšΆπŸƒ men β™‚πŸ‘¨ will propose πŸ€” with expensive πŸ’΅, over πŸ” the top πŸ”Ό rings πŸ’ in order πŸ“‘βŒ to trap πŸ‘πŸ‘… you πŸ‘ˆπŸΌ and keep πŸ‘ŒπŸ”’ you πŸ‘ˆ in the cycle ❗ of narcissistic πŸ’β€β™€οΈ abuse πŸ‘ŠπŸ˜­. This post 🚩 applies 🎁 to the man πŸ‘¨ I πŸ‘₯ decide πŸ€” to be with forever πŸ• who I’ve πŸ™‹πŸ½β€β™‚οΈ vetted ruthlessly 😈 for a long πŸ˜πŸ† period 😩🍫 of time πŸ•πŸ•›πŸ†.

    I πŸ‘ know πŸ’­ I’ll 🀫 get πŸ”Ÿ a lot πŸ’― of flack from broke πŸ’”πŸ˜Ώ af πŸ’― scrotes in the comments πŸ’¬ and pickme’s who think πŸ€” the bare 🐻 minimum πŸ›’ ($100 πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚πŸ˜… ring 🎊) from Walmart 🀒 is enough πŸ’¦. IDGAF πŸ˜‚πŸ’― if your πŸ‘ˆ LV πŸ›«πŸšΆπŸƒ partner πŸ‘­πŸ‘¬πŸ‘« proposed πŸ’ to you πŸ‘ˆ with a $100 πŸ˜†πŸ˜‚πŸ˜… ring πŸ’ from Walmart πŸͺπŸ’². Personally πŸ‘«πŸ‘¬πŸ‘­, I πŸ‘ want 😍 to be with someone πŸ‘€ who truly πŸ’―βœ” values πŸ’΅ me and values πŸ‘… the relationship πŸ‘«πŸ‘¬πŸ‘­. Remember πŸ’­ that we always πŸ”₯ value πŸ‘ͺ the things πŸ•‘ we pay πŸ’Έ for/buy. I’m πŸ’˜ not down ⬇ for struggle 😩 love ❀.

    Never ❌ ever 😠 reduce β¬œβ–« your πŸ‘‰ standards 🚹 in fear 😱 of offending 😭 people πŸ˜πŸ‘¨. Your πŸ‘‰ standards β—»β—ΌπŸ•΄ are valid 🌟, and you πŸ‘…πŸ‘„πŸ‘‰ truly πŸ’― deserve πŸ‘Œ what you πŸ‘ˆ want 😍. Never 🚫 settle ⬇ just because society πŸ˜ΌπŸ‘ŒπŸ’₯ tells πŸ—£ you πŸ‘‰πŸ»πŸ§‘πŸ» that you πŸ‘ˆ should accept πŸ˜• the bare 🐻 minimum πŸ›’.

Leave a Reply