[NSFW] AITA for throwing away my partner’s crate?

Hey, Madghosts. So I (21M) have been with my partner (20NB) for three years now. They’ve always really been into the whole furry scene, which I don’t really mind, but lately things have been getting… Weird.

Every time we’re in the bedroom, they insist on bringing some sort of “dog” element into it. Sometimes it’s ears, sometimes it’s peanut butter on my nether regions, sometimes there’s a leash involved. I just try to tune it out so I can get my rocks off, but… It’s hard when they insist on being called a “service dog”.

Lately, we’ve been getting into more arguments. They’re clingy, so I’ll get snappy with them when they refuse to give me space. This will usually lead to them freaking out to some degree, like screaming at me or locking themselves in the bathroom until I stop ignoring them. It all came to a head this evening.

They sometimes “regress” and use a dog crate for comfort, like by sitting in it to relieve stress or to make them feel better or something (we don’t have a dog – this is only used by them). I got rightfully upset with them after they tried to sabotage my job interview by calling my workplace and badmouthing me. When they got pouty after I confronted them, I went over to the crate, took it outside to my truck bed and drove away before they could go sit in it. I dropped it off at the humane society all while they called my phone 13 times.

Now their friend (20NB) has been texting me and telling me I’m a total POS for “invalidating their pet regression” and accusing me of abuse. So, Madghosts, AITA?

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What do you think?

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