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If multiple sexual partners were socially acceptable, would you have more than one? Why or why not?
If multiple sexual partners were socially acceptable, would you have more than one? Why or why not?
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Gotta catch ’em all!
If I wanted to disappoint two people at the same time, I would just go have dinner with my parents
No, I can’t even get one… so getting multiple is basicly impossible
It would be a miracle to find more then one person who is attracted to me
Hell no, one is more than a handful, let alone more. I value my mental health.
A good friend of mine has like 9-10 sexual partners at this moment. Every guy knows about each other. She has like the most exciting sexual life ever, and nobody gets offended because she is very clear. I always been in long term relationship, but i would love to try to live a week like her
At the same time? Yes. In life concurrently? Yes. Would I fail at keeping them satisfied? Yes
I’ve been polyamorous…that shit is tiring. emotionally.
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I mean birds do it! Well people too!
It’s different for everyone, and different stages in life might change one’s perspective.
I wouldn’t have 10 years ago, but now it doesn’t seem like it would be so bad with healthy communication and some special people.
I’d have like 30 in total
They arent? Today I learnt.
Not if I were in love, personally.
Multiple sexual partners can be seen as a sign of dominance or prestige to some. Can be fun too.
But if I were in love with someone, and truly committed to them, in the form of a relationship, I couldn’t do that.
Already have more than one. Who says it’s not socially acceptable?
I already do… whether it’s socially acceptable or not.
I mean, I already do so…
Socially acceptable in my group and already have more than one. Why? Because it’s nice being able to have fun with multiple people plus we all have built in friends for other non-sexual things.
Isn’t it sorta already? You mean more than one relationship?
I’ve been poly and it was great when someone wasn’t jealous or making assumptions about one of my other partners or making problems for one of my other partners. Unfortunately things weren’t going that well often. If socially acceptable means other people are in an emotional state where they can handle it then maybe. I have mixed feelings about polyamory and I also have mixed feelings about monogamy so… I’m not sure.
I don’t think it’s an issue of socially accepted, but if it’s acceptable to the people you are with.
Im not able to get one, getting two its out of consideration
Hahaha, who cares if it’s socially acceptable? I’ll do what I want with who I want.
I Would, assuming everyone is cool with it, at least 2, maybe a 3rd to come in clutch.
They _are_ socially acceptable **if all partners are OK with it**
Yes
It will be fun more than one type
Maybe, probably not. Sounds like it would be a pain.
No, I like being able to focus on just one person. It would be hard for me to devote the time and love to multiple people just because my brain doesn’t really work like that
I don’t personally think it is possible to love two people at the same time, so I am sticking with my girlfriend
Doesn’t matter if it’s socially acceptable you have to please yourself in the bedroom. And you know what they say as long as we’re all consenting adults
No. Not my style.
No. Am married.
No and because I believe that that’s something intimate and special and that it should be shared with someone that’s special.
No. Just not my preference and also wouldn’t want any STDs.
No women are to hard to manage
15 years ago, maybe because I had the stamina and drive for that shit. Today… I don’t even want the 1 I have.
No I wouldn’t.
This question acts like the hypothetical partners are sex robots that you can just turn on and off at your whim for sexual pleasure.
These partners are people, as in they have other needs besides sex. Physical non sexual needs like hugging and kissing. Emotional needs like listening to their day and providing emotional support. Intimacy needs like going on dates, spending time together and enjoying mutual hobbies.
It’s hard enough to do all of that consistently with 1 partner on top of all the other adult responsibilities adults have. If someone was trying to do that with 3+ people I don’t know how they would even find the time.
And if someone doesn’t want to do all of that other stuff and just have a lot of casual sex, nothing is stopping them from doing that right now.
I think that’s what polyamory people do.
Polyamory is spelled: h e r p e s
No. There’s only one woman for me, in any capacity, I wouldn’t want anyone else 🙂
One is enough
I like the idea of it, but in practice it’s probably more trouble than it’s work.
I love my wife and our relationship. I commit a lot of time and effort to it. It would be fun to get to have sex with other people, but it wouldn’t be fair to my wife to commit less to our relationship, and it wouldn’t be fair to whoever the other woman is to commit absolutely zero time, effort, or care to her.