How do you deal with loneliness? by QuestionGuy June 19, 2022, 6:51 am How do you deal with loneliness? What do you think? 12 Points Upvote Downvote AskAskMedeallonelinessQuestion and Answer See more Previous article People who failed the “I am not a robot” captcha on a website, how has your life changed since finding out what you are? Next article *MOUTH DROPS* ASIAN GAMER GIRL LIKES ANIME!? 39 Comments Leave a Reply I trick myself into thinking that loneliness doesn’t bother me. It’s a ‘fake it till you make it’ type of deal. Loneliness sucks so I understand wanting to find ways to deal with it. It’s best to seek out the positive aspects of it! Loneliness should not always be equivalent to troublesome. Try finding ways to have fun with it! For me, I love watching shows & movies or doing various different hobbies / trying new things! I’m rooting for ya dude! I hope it gets better for you. Log in to Reply I watch the office, i cant feel lonely when i am around Michael, Dwight and the rest Log in to Reply Overthink and get sad Log in to Reply My loneliness is killing me Log in to Reply understand that you are great for who you are and that you don’t necessarily always need someone else Log in to Reply Spontaneous singing and dancing like crazy. I love my crazy self Log in to Reply Hobbies. I build model kits and watch anime, do woodworking, gunsmithing, computer stuff. Log in to Reply I tell myself that it’s okay, that I prefer to be alone and that I enjoy it which I know is a huge lie. Log in to Reply I have several cats, and they are awesome buddies to have around when feeling lonely! Log in to Reply Youre supposed to do that? Log in to Reply Well first you need to identify and understand why you’re lonely to begin with. So if it’s not due to your own psychological state, or nonexistent social skills, then you need to find something to occupy your time Log in to Reply Once you learn how embrace the silence and the freedom of loneliness, the crowd will start to bother you. But you’ll still eventually miss having bonds from time to time. 7/10 loneliness has its own perks. Log in to Reply Youtube reaction channels and let’s plays. It is so fun watching an episode of a show and then going to my favorite reaction channel to watch their reaction to it. I recommend Blindwave. ​ Also if you want actual human interaction, just play an MMO and join an active guild. Log in to Reply Hey we’ve all been there, buddy. The first thing you gotta do is accept it that you’re feeling lonely, first step is always to accept how things are and try making smaller adjustments in life to help you connect with people more and reduce you feeling this way. Look out for community events, neighbourhood activities etc and get to know people around you. And besides, being lonely isn’t really bad! I personally used to hate myself for feeling lonely, but I slowly realised it can also be fun! Similar to how u/MajorCombination9002 posted, being lonely isn’t always supposed to be weary! Try learning a new skill! Getting back to an old hobby! Or just bing watching your favourite show and treat yourself with something you love! Log in to Reply I embrace it. It is a very rare moment when I do not feel alone or apart from other around me, even my own family. It’s a wonderful time to have conversations with yourself, or to learn a skill, or to simply pursue exactly what you want. It’s a funny thing: once you’re comfortable with always being alone, you’ll stumble into someone that doesn’t make you feel alone anymore. Log in to Reply Step 1 get an ouija board Step 2 talk to a ghost Step 3 become friends Step 4 get your ghost friend to get his ghost friends to come to your house (optional) Step 5 enjoy your friends Log in to Reply I browse Reddit for posts that will take my mind off of how lonely I feel. screams out in solitude Log in to Reply Play with it a little. Temporary fix but consistency is key Log in to Reply Shopping. It costs a ton but is shockingly effective, not entirely sure why. Log in to Reply Whiskey and cocaine. Friends help too Log in to Reply I seek thrills. I do risky shit that gives myself an adrenaline rush. Log in to Reply Music and food Log in to Reply Reddit Log in to Reply In all the wrong way. Log in to Reply You know, there are so many things you can do until you still find yourself lonely again. Talking or spending time with others is the only way to deal with loneliness. Log in to Reply Meditation. I know I might seem a little hippy-dippy or weird or whatever, but just recognizing the feeling and where it’s coming from makes it a much more neutral experience. Log in to Reply Twitch Log in to Reply Every once in awhile I interact with people and am reminded it is better to be happy and alone than miserable and have company. Log in to Reply First of all stop thinking that being lonely is something bad. It isn’t. You can be lonely and do whatever you want , but most games where you need two or more players. Log in to Reply Go to the gym Log in to Reply Appreciate the people I have. God will take away what I dont appreciate. I cant afford to lose the few truly close friends I have. Log in to Reply Movies and Web Series Music Books Log in to Reply video games, shows, reading; something to distract yourself. it helps when your interest is piqued by something you find entertaining. its rough, i know, but there is a very distinct difference between loneliness and solitude and in my experience that difference is your state of mind. in that respect i would also recommend meditation/mindfulness practices. Log in to Reply I usually talk to my friends on discord talking about my day and them telling me stuff about their day, making me a lot more happy Log in to Reply Have deep discussions with my cat Log in to Reply enjoy it Log in to Reply Buy more board games. Only to realize I need friends to play them Log in to Reply Cry Log in to Reply I call up my friends or family. Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.