How do you deal with the realization that you’re not good enough?

How do you deal with the realization that you’re not good enough?

What do you think?

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  1. I tell myself that it doesn’t dictate my worth or how fulfilling my life can be. Not everyone is gonna be an extraordinary person who’s able to live up to everyone’s expectations, and that’s fine.

  2. Depends on what I am not good enough for.

    If it is something I need, I try to be better, or find a way to change my situation that I don’t need it anymore.
    If it is something I want, I decide whether it is worth the effort to improve, and if not, I don’t want it anymore.
    If it is something I neither want or need, I don’t give a shit.

  3. In what sense?

    Try not to compare yourself to other people. Everyone is at a different stage in life, whether they are the same age or not. Comparing yourself will bring you nothing but shame and discouragement.

    You are a life-long learner. No matter how good you are at something; how smart, talented, etc.: there will always be something else for you to learn.

    Learning self-love and confidence is part of that. Hope you start treating yourself more kindly.

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