How do you know who your real friends are? by QuestionGuy August 15, 2022, 3:00 am How do you know who your real friends are? What do you think? 11 Points Upvote Downvote AskAskMeFriendsQuestion and Answerreal See more Previous article Coming soon: An underwater search for WWII wreckage off Alaska’s Attu Island Next article TIL Watermelon has very little fiber and can deplete you of sodium by having too much 24 Comments Leave a Reply Real friends make time for you. Log in to Reply You can go for long periods of time without talking, but when you do talk or meet up its as good as it ever was. Mutual understanding that people can just have stuff on and life gets in the way Log in to Reply Don’t text ANYONE for a month, see who texts you Log in to Reply Well, they don’t exist, so it’s easy. Log in to Reply They don’t try to manipulate or gaslight you Log in to Reply For me, it was when I decided to get clean… YMMV… Log in to Reply When people expect you should always be there for them, but when you need them, they are never there for you. Log in to Reply There are a lot of comments here and I don’t agree with a lot of them. “Real friends make time for you” and “Don’t text anyone for a month, see who texts you” are a couple I disagree with. First of all, it’s naive to think that your friends will always have time to make for you. You have to understand that you’re probably *far* from their only friend, and that they have other people in their lives as well. And sometimes, hanging out with someone too much can get tiring, even if they are a good friend. On the text one, I don’t believe that being a “real friend” is based on how much one communicates with the other. For all I know, my friend and I can stop talking for literal years and start talking again like nothing happened. Does the lack of communication between us make us less of friends? Of course not. In fact, we can go years without talking and still crash over at my house any time. Now for my opinion: I believe that a real friend will never tell you to do anything that harms you. Log in to Reply Ones that will buy you things when you need them, ones that will support you when you need it. Log in to Reply I know in my heart. And that’s all that matters Log in to Reply When they remember your name Log in to Reply They are there for you and support you when you’re going through something Log in to Reply Will you loan them money? Log in to Reply Have a problem that you can’t fix on your own. Log in to Reply They are bold enough in your relationship to say the difficult things to your face, and talk about the best of you when you’re not around to others. Log in to Reply Cliche but the whole handling you at your worst/deserving you at your best thing does have some truth. If your friends are there for you when you aren’t doing well, and you’re there for them, then you know they’re real friends Log in to Reply Tell the truth. Log in to Reply Poke them with a needle. Real ones will react. Log in to Reply I’m 30 and have a very close group of friends, we’ve been friends for 15-25 years now. One of the qualities we all share in common is the love and care shown to our families. That same behavior translates over to our friendship and extends to all of our families as well. The way a person treats people behind closed doors and people in public should be consistent. Log in to Reply They don’t talk shit about you and they want to hang out and talk to you Log in to Reply They play Mario Kart with you Log in to Reply Run your car off the side of the road Get stuck in a ditch way out in the middle of nowhere Log in to Reply Everything you do will consider you, help you without hesitation when you are in trouble, and remind you all the time to keep you calm Log in to Reply I am making $92 an hour working from home. i was greatly surprised at the same time as my neighbour advised me she changed into averaging $ninety five however I see the way it works now. I experience mass freedom now that I’m my non-public boss. That is what I do.. http://www.Profit97.com Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.