Men of Reddit: What makes a woman good in bed?

Men of Reddit: What makes a woman good in bed?

What do you think?

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  1. (in order of importance)

    1. Communication
    2. Desire to ensure BOTH people are enjoying themselves as well as expressing when they are.
    3. HYGIENE AND SMELL
    4. Honesty(this kind of falls in line with communication but yeah if something isn’t doing it for you tell me)
    5. Making sure I feel desired physically and mentally throughout
    6. Open-mindedness
    7. Aftercare

    This list probably applies to men as well. I don’t know. I don’t sleep with men. But I do put these into practice myself and have gotten a few compliments sooo…I figure it goes both ways

  2. I’d say for me it’s about passion and intimacy. With my first love it felt magical and spiritual. When we would kiss, I would see fireworks. I’ve been with a few girls since then and it hasn’t even been close to the same. It just feels like sex. There’s been no emotional connection and while it feels good. It’s just not even close to the same level as when I’m deeply in love and making love instead of just hedonistic sex

  3. Aggression.

    She engages, and interacts with you, in bed. Maybe she slaps you and shoves you off of her, only to flip you on your back, jump on top of you, and put your swollen member back inside of her. And then *she* fucks *you*.

    Dead fish can fuck right off.

  4. Putting in effort, she can tighten and make noises or reaction to stuff to put us on right track to giving you an orgasm. She can even ride or just dirty talking to a guy. I think this all comes back to putting in an effort. Guys want to feel wanted to just as much as you do.

  5. Tell me you like it, and I prefer affection. I get off to kisses while sex, and intimacy makes it 10 times better than a random fuck.

    Literally tell us you enjoy our cocks. It’s a huge confidence booster.

  6. This is oversimplifying but *yeah*: actively moving. There’s something demoralizing about a girlfriend who defaults to missionary and is basically being serviced by you and hoping you *get yourself off* with her body.

    Like, it can be fun but if anything even approaching “cowgirl” is exotic or kinky in a relationship, then the sex is a chore like washing dishes.

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