[serious] Men of reddit, who do you call when life hits you hard? by QuestionGuy May 15, 2022, 1:10 am [serious] Men of reddit, who do you call when life hits you hard? What do you think? 8 Points Upvote Downvote AskAskMecallhardhitsLifemenQuestion and Answerreddit See more Previous article You have to choose 5 movies and these are the only movies you can watch for the rest of your life. What movies are they? Next article What song has been on repeat for you lately? 30 Comments Leave a Reply I have nobody I could call. I don’t have friends, and I haven’t been on good terms with my family in many years. I’ve tried crisis hotlines before, but have had some bad experiences, so I’m reluctant to do that again. Log in to Reply No one Log in to Reply Nobody. There’s nobody to go to without it causing serious problems. Log in to Reply No one. Nobody cares. And even if they did, we as men know they’re also going through their own shit and wouldn’t want to burden them with my shit too. Log in to Reply When we are allowed to say that life hits us hard, let me know Log in to Reply My mother Log in to Reply Gotta do it yourself, no ones gonna help u. It is what it is Log in to Reply I call on the force to guide me. Log in to Reply Whoever you can be the most you with Log in to Reply My boss 💯 good mate Log in to Reply My wife. I have no friends, or any other family. Log in to Reply Ghost Busters Log in to Reply Before I started dating my gf, no one. While we have been dating its been her but as of rn our lives are going in different directions and neither of us want to go distanced it looks like I shall be going back to having to tank it alone at summer’s end. Log in to Reply Mommy Log in to Reply Mom Can help with anything Log in to Reply Just gotta get by on your own, nobody really understands 🤷🏼♂️ Log in to Reply My coworker who is half my age. It’s complicated. Log in to Reply My best friend. My SO. My mom. Other friends. My best friends mom. There’s a cousin or two I could turn to if I needed to. Log in to Reply My wife. Log in to Reply I call my weed man honestly Log in to Reply Jim Beam Log in to Reply Not really anyone Log in to Reply Most men lead lives of quiet desperation. Log in to Reply Usually just my best friend. But sometimes when I’m really low I don’t want to bother anyone with that and I just sink into myself and drink. Lucky it only happens a few times a year. Log in to Reply My cousin. He’s the coolest guy I know. Log in to Reply God, he gives me ease. 🤔 Log in to Reply Step 1: Pinch nose bridge, hang head, *sigh* Bonus step: Make sure to speak to no one about it Step 2: Take a bath Step 3: Call mom the next day to not talk about what happened. Step 4: Realize it’s not as bad as you thought. So, pretty much the same protocol of stubbing your pinkie toe. Log in to Reply Idk why I’m getting these depression related recommendations but whatever: No one, I would have said I’m unusual but the comments here imply perhaps I’m not. I’ve never found that calling someone actually helps with coping (with anything serious at least, minor stuff sharing is nice). It’s always been between me and Walther to make the choice to keep on going, and being able to reconcile life with yourself is far more important than anything someone else could do. Log in to Reply Nobody to call ofc. Whatever happens to a man is just kinda funny. Better not show any emotion either or your girl will leave you Log in to Reply I usually ignore everyone for a while until I get over whatever is causing me grief, whether that be learning to accept what happens or taking action to stop it. I like my friends/family but they aren’t the best to have serious conversations with and I’d probably feel worse afterwards. Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.