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[serious] Men of reddit, who do you call when life hits you hard?
[serious] Men of reddit, who do you call when life hits you hard?
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I have nobody I could call. I don’t have friends, and I haven’t been on good terms with my family in many years.
I’ve tried crisis hotlines before, but have had some bad experiences, so I’m reluctant to do that again.
No one
Nobody. There’s nobody to go to without it causing serious problems.
No one. Nobody cares. And even if they did, we as men know they’re also going through their own shit and wouldn’t want to burden them with my shit too.
When we are allowed to say that life hits us hard, let me know
My mother
Gotta do it yourself, no ones gonna help u. It is what it is
I call on the force to guide me.
Whoever you can be the most you with
My boss 💯 good mate
My wife. I have no friends, or any other family.
Ghost Busters
Before I started dating my gf, no one. While we have been dating its been her but as of rn our lives are going in different directions and neither of us want to go distanced it looks like I shall be going back to having to tank it alone at summer’s end.
Mommy
Mom Can help with anything
Just gotta get by on your own, nobody really understands 🤷🏼♂️
My coworker who is half my age. It’s complicated.
My best friend. My SO. My mom. Other friends. My best friends mom. There’s a cousin or two I could turn to if I needed to.
My wife.
I call my weed man honestly
Jim Beam
Not really anyone
Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.
Usually just my best friend. But sometimes when I’m really low I don’t want to bother anyone with that and I just sink into myself and drink. Lucky it only happens a few times a year.
My cousin. He’s the coolest guy I know.
God, he gives me ease. 🤔
Step 1: Pinch nose bridge, hang head, *sigh*
Bonus step: Make sure to speak to no one about it
Step 2: Take a bath
Step 3: Call mom the next day to not talk about what happened.
Step 4: Realize it’s not as bad as you thought.
So, pretty much the same protocol of stubbing your pinkie toe.
Idk why I’m getting these depression related recommendations but whatever:
No one, I would have said I’m unusual but the comments here imply perhaps I’m not. I’ve never found that calling someone actually helps with coping (with anything serious at least, minor stuff sharing is nice). It’s always been between me and Walther to make the choice to keep on going, and being able to reconcile life with yourself is far more important than anything someone else could do.
Nobody to call ofc. Whatever happens to a man is just kinda funny. Better not show any emotion either or your girl will leave you
I usually ignore everyone for a while until I get over whatever is causing me grief, whether that be learning to accept what happens or taking action to stop it. I like my friends/family but they aren’t the best to have serious conversations with and I’d probably feel worse afterwards.