(Serious) What do you think of guys who don’t go down on girls? by QuestionGuy September 28, 2022, 11:55 am (Serious) What do you think of guys who don’t go down on girls? What do you think? 1 Point Upvote Downvote AskAskMedon'tgirls.guysQuestion and Answer See more Previous article Friend dying from AIDS Next article What is the worst movie scene in history? 41 Comments Leave a Reply That’s okay with me, but I’m not going down on them either. I’d be fine with it as long as we were on the same page. He wants his dick sucked but doesn’t want to go down on me? Lol BYE Log in to Reply Not everyone likes it.. but if you dont go down dont expect her to suck your dick.. Log in to Reply Think it’s fine if they don’t want to do that, but if someone goes down on them, it’s unfair and selfish of them to be unwilling to reciprocate. Log in to Reply People can have their preferences but in men, this preference often comes from selfishness and immaturity. A lot of dudes think that a vagina is nasty while thinking that their dick is the centre of a woman’s world and that’s why they won’t go down on their partners. Of course it can be a completely innocent preference but don’t expect to receive if you refuse to give. Log in to Reply As long as any preference works out for both involved partners, there’s no issue. Log in to Reply In my entire relationship with my ex he only went down for once and only love his dick being sucked it’s one of the reasons I dump him idk what’s his reasons for not doing it I’m pretty sure I’m hygienic and always make sure to smells nice, my second bf after him loves going down on me so it was his problem I’d figured it out at the end. Log in to Reply I don’t have a horse in this race, but I did date men once upon a time so I guess I can comment? Men who won’t go down on women but also don’t expect blow jobs? They’re fine. Not everyone’s into oral and that’s valid. Men who won’t go down on women but DO want blow jobs? That’s kind of scummy. You gotta be willing to please as well as be pleased. It’d be one thing if they were willing to lend a hand, so to speak, but hand jobs and tongue jobs are very different sensations even for women. Log in to Reply In my experience, they usually have a porn problem and/or a bit sexist. As in their drive for any sexual encounters is usually all about them. Another is not knowing what to do and too insecure to learn. I’m not counting those who genuinely don’t like it, I’m talking ones who show a clear attitude of preference for male pleasure, (even tho some guys do get pleasure out of it. I’d almost forgotten that they exist). Log in to Reply Honestly, that’s their preference but I’d not give them oral either and I doubt the relationship would last long because penetrative sex is not enough to get most women off, myself included. It would also raise a few red flags regarding whether they use a lot of porn/have sexist double standards / find women’s vulvas unattractive. I’d personally want a man who savoured every part of me and made my legs shake in bed. Log in to Reply It’s fine as long as they’re willing to compensate with their fingers. Fingers work better for me anyway. Log in to Reply It’s a matter of preference. No man needs to go down on me. I don’t like giving bj either. But he should still be skilled with his hands. Log in to Reply Those guys are not team players. Log in to Reply That’s fine but don’t ask for the same. Log in to Reply I can’t imagine not going down on a girl. I can’t get off myself unless I do this. I see this as way more initmate and sensual than straight penetration. Log in to Reply I was a guy’s first (I’d been with a sex worker once before him, but that’s another story), and he was uncomfortable/afraid with doing anything other than penetration. I was too understanding. At the start of our sort of fwb thing I told him I had a lot of trouble masturbating without toys, so seeing as I didn’t even know what I liked I didn’t want him to feel pressure if what he did didn’t work. But he took it as leave to just not try anything, and I didn’t come a single time in all the months we were together. It taught me to be more selfish, and that understanding (to a point) doesn’t have to mean you accept it Log in to Reply I greatly appreciate them, they help my meager dating prospects a great deal. Log in to Reply Cannibalism is bad, it makes sense that pussies don’t eat pussy. Log in to Reply It‘s fine as long as he is willing to work towards my orgasm in other ways. Log in to Reply It’s a big rejection actually. And I don’t think I would like a relationship with a guy who doesn’t like all of me. It would make me feel insecure an rejected. I wouldn’t push anyone to do it. But if a guy tells me he doesn’t like me down there, I can’t get that intimate with him. Log in to Reply I would go down on woman any chance I can. I love it. It’s a pleasing thing but also a control thing. If I can make this woman cum, squirt, or whatever just by sucking on her…I feel empowered. I dont need any reciprocation either. And even better if I can do it after I creqmpie with my defective sperm Log in to Reply Doesn’t matter, communication is key and I’d be glad if he was being honest. I also don’t like certain things. Noones getting forced and everyone should only be doing what they are comfortable with Log in to Reply It is totally fair if someone does not like it and he should not be pressured into it. Nevertheless, I would seek a conversation to understand the reason Log in to Reply Selfish and missing out Log in to Reply I really think they’re missing out on tasting something as sweet as pussy. Log in to Reply Here, hold my beer… Log in to Reply I don’t care Log in to Reply I’m a guy, I haven’t been in any relationship but I have read like 2-3 eBooks about cunilingus and female anatomy, I don’t know what will happen when I will apply my theoretical knowledge practically. I thought i should read and understand, mechanism so that I wouldn’t hurt the person in anyway. PS: if I have come across as a brag I apologize, I thought i should gain some knowledge on that subject. Log in to Reply This isn’t a black and white issue, it is rather nuanced with different possibilities for each individual in any relationship. The key is that both (or all) parties are on the same page so that no one is left feeling unfulfilled or viewed as selfish. Log in to Reply Depends, is he just sensitive to taste/smell or does he just thinks badly abt women ? I myself am very sensitive abt taste and smell so I’d understand but if it’s just bc « real dudes don’t go down on their gf » then instant bye Log in to Reply I was with that kind of guy. Straight up told him I wouldn’t go down on him either. Yet everytime we were together, he asked me to do so. We’re not together anymore. Shame because I actually like both, giving and receiving. Log in to Reply only go down on your gf not a fling Log in to Reply I’m fine with it. If he’s not expecting me to go down on him. Fairs fair. Log in to Reply Have no thoughts other than it’s every one’s best to do what they want. No pressure on anyone to do things they don’t enjoy. 🙂 Log in to Reply He should not expect any blow jobs. Log in to Reply I don’t think of them at all. To each his own. Who cares? Log in to Reply Love it, the only correct answer is that everyone is entitled to their own taste, and yet I had to scroll far down to find it. Log in to Reply Nothing? It’s their personal preference and i have nothing to say Log in to Reply It’s fine, there’s someone for everyone, if a guy doesn’t want to go down on a woman I’m sure there are women who will be ok with that. Nobody is entitled to anything in a relationship. For me personally it would be a deal-breaker though, so it’s good to be upfront about certain things to avoid later disappointments and problems in the relationship. Log in to Reply As a guy, I think they’re missing out. Log in to Reply Insane , it is my favorite thing to do ! Just ask me anytime of the day , I am down to EO ! Log in to Reply I don’t like receiving oral so I’m fine with it. Each person is different tho. Best to just ask Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.