[serious] what to say to a person who is crying ? by QuestionGuy June 25, 2022, 6:38 pm [serious] what to say to a person who is crying ? What do you think? 12 Points Upvote Downvote AskAskMecryingpersonQuestion and Answer See more Previous article What are likely outcomes if Native Americans choose to open abortion clinics on a reservation land? Next article A truck carrying vicks vaporub overturned on the highway. 19 Comments Leave a Reply There isn’t always a need to say something, sometimes you just gotta be there Log in to Reply “It’s ok, let It out i’m here for you” that IS If you have that kind of friendship Log in to Reply You want to get a beer/pizza/ice cream and talk? Log in to Reply Normally I don’t say anything, I will just listen to that person. People cry because they have been holding up their feelings for a long time or they’re prevented to say what they feel or nobody listen to them. Log in to Reply “what’s wrong?” Log in to Reply Hey it’s ok here’s some icecream. Log in to Reply Do you want me to listen, or do you want advice? Log in to Reply If you know the one crying, say nothing. Just hug. Log in to Reply Hello there. Log in to Reply Is there anything I can do? I’m here for you Cry as long as you need to Would you like a hug? Log in to Reply Ask if everythingis okay and if they need a hug. Log in to Reply I’ve heard it can be really toxic to shush them or tell them not to cry, like it may invalidate those feelings, encourage them to be suppressed, or discourage actual processing. I think letting the tears run their course may be better, and if you know how to active-listen or validate those feelings, that would be better Log in to Reply Stop crying. Log in to Reply “Stop that crying or I’ll give you something to cry about” Log in to Reply Stop crying Log in to Reply Hold them if they let you and tell them it’s going to be okay. Log in to Reply When you die can I have all your belongings? Log in to Reply Are you okay? Log in to Reply SCOTUS made their decision deal with it Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.