There’s this notion that if a woman wants casual sex, all she has to do is post on Tinder and most guys would pursue her regardless of how attractive she is. How realistic is this?

There’s this notion that if a woman wants casual sex, all she has to do is post on Tinder and most guys would pursue her regardless of how attractive she is. How realistic is this?

What do you think?

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  1. I had tinder for approximately half an hour because I was cutious what the talk was all about. It took me 10 minutes to get 99+ likes and basically every guy I swiped right on was a match. I consider myself attractive, but not exceptionally attractive, so yes, I would say it’s fairly easy.

  2. It’s probably true, but for women, “casual sex” is often not that good because women don’t come every time guaranteed. It requires skill on the part of the male partner, and most guys … well, let’s just say they wouldn’t exactly get that merit badge.

    So if she wanted what is highly likely to be a shitty experience *at best*, and at worst a dangerous one, she can get it in 30 minutes, but who wants that?

  3. I heard that there’s a male to female ratio on tinder and that apps, something like 8-1 or something, if this is true, then it’s probably very realistic

  4. When I was using a dating app, I’d get between 30 – 60+ messages a day. At least 15 intimate pics.

    I dated 3 guys in that year.

    4yrs later still with the guy who I watched Cannonball Run with, we sat at each end of the sofa…but we laughed at the film, at Internet dating, about life. I still belly laugh with him years later.

  5. She wouldn’t even need to post to tinder. All she’d need to do is walk down the street, spot any guy she wants.
    Regardless how attractive she is.

    Even cold day old pizza is still good if you’re in the mood.

  6. Men are much more single minded about things than women, as in we hear sex and can forgive many other sins (compatibility, overall attractiveness, etc), women are far more selective. I’ve always said it like this:

    If a woman walked into a bar, right now (COVID aside) and just announced I’m gonna fuck one of you tonight, loyal men and gay men aside, you’re gonna essentially have your pick of the litter.

    But were I, a man, to walk into a bar packed with women, and say the same thing, same tone, same cadence, I would more than likely be found heinous and disgusting, may be met with many glares, boos, might even be refused service, and would find myself doing the one-two tango with my right hand later on that evening.

    Why do you think men don’t report being raped by women generally?

    Society by and large doesn’t believe that a man can be raped by a woman, physical attributes aside, many people end up feeling as though, you should be considered lucky to have had a woman take advantage of you at all. It’s sort of an *atta boy* sentiment a lot, albeit that is changing at a glacial pace.

  7. Idk about other guys but I’ve been on tinder and I’ve seen some girls post “hmu if you wanna fuck” and I thought to myself “I wouldn’t even take you from behind unless I turned blind

  8. My dude all a woman has to do is walk down a street to have sexual attention thrown at them. I have worked dirty jobs where I get covered in and sweat and there’d be a guy asking for my number.

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