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What behaviour you consider toxic but most people don’t?
What behaviour you consider toxic but most people don’t?
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Always being on your phone no matter what
Talking shit about people for entertainment purposes.
Making your oldest child be a “third parent”.
The use of the word “whatever” as a way to end a conversation. It seems cruelly dismissive.
People who brag about how little they sleep are dumb.
Taking care of your body, to include getting an appropriate amount of rest, is cool.
I work in disaster response and there’s always a conversation with the new guy/girl who wants to solve the entire problem in one day. That’s not how it works. I need you to be able to function in three weeks’ time. That can’t happen if you burn yourself out in the next 48 hours.
being condescending. super aggravating
Half lies.
Lying to your friends.
Crocodile tears.
Arguing about trivial things that detract from the argument at hand.
Constantly policing people for medium-tier or even low-tier offensive language.
There are front-page subreddits that will automatically delete any comment that includes the word “crazy” because it is a “problematic ableist slur.”
Electronic Pillory.
Popular beyond all reasoning, but its toxic as fuck at the end of the day.
Talking to your friends about your personal stuff in your relationship instead of speaking with your partner, always great with a little extra opinions but sometimes people say too much.
Correcting people in front of others:
Either for their misuse of grammar or nitpicking the veracity of what they say.
Implying that you need something but not asking for it.
Pokerface with a smile.
Spraying Polychlorinated Biphenyls on people.
Positing your nudes online (onlyfans, cam girls etc)
Expecting you to drop everything and respond to a text **immediately**.
Asking personal questions without consent. Like “when will you have kids?” I mean, at least preface it with “you may not answer if you don’t want to”
Playing devil’s advocate
People have convinced themselves they’re participating in some sort of intellectual exercise when they pick apart every argument that comes their way even when they agree with the sentiment—but if you’re doing that in a public space and not just providing notes in private to help strengthen an ally’s argument, you’re effectively just arguing for the other side. Those upvotes you receive are people that agree with the devil. Nobody knows your intentions but you.