What makes you instantly dislike someone you just met?

What makes you instantly dislike someone you just met?

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  1. IDK what it is but there have been a couple times in my life that the moment they introduce themselves I can just “feel” that they’re not a trustworthy person and I immediately dislike them. I don’t know what it is, IDK what I’m sensing, but maybe it’s a dog instinct that just tells me without necessarily telling me why, that they are not to be trusted or to be friends with.

    I have never been able to figure out if it’s their tone of voice, their eyes, their facial expressions, the way they carry themselves, etc., but internally I can “feel” it. In those few cases I’ve alluded to above I did later find out indeed they were very unsavory characters, if even I didn’t exactly know why but I did know that they weren’t trustworthy.

  2. Shyness is fine, but rudeness is an instant and hard no for me.

    People who immediately put you down in some way to feel superior. I’ll remain polite but in my head I will have ticked a box labelled ‘fuck this person’. I will get away from them as soon as I can and avoid them like the plague after that.

  3. Making low key insults to me and others, disguised as jokes, lighthearted teasing, or back-handed compliments. A lot of very insecure and toxic people do this all the time.

  4. If I am standing silently in a group of people because I have nothing to contribute but still want to listen, and then someone joins the group to also listen, but stands immediately in front of me as if I am not there.

    Biggest pet peeve.

  5. Facial piercings on women. In my experience every woman with facial piercing suffers from some form of insanity or pathology that makes her extremely deviant in a bad way

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