Whats your mindset approaching someone you find attractive? by QuestionGuy February 16, 2022, 8:21 pm Whats your mindset approaching someone you find attractive? What do you think? 12 Points Upvote Downvote approachingAskAskMeattractivefindmindsetQuestion and AnswerWhats See more Previous article Pls forgive me i didnt mean to DREAM<!!!! Next article I am in your basement 41 Comments Leave a Reply AAAALAAAAARRRRMMMM DING! DING! DING! try acting normal! WAHOOOOOGAH WAHOOOOGAH! Log in to Reply I don’t because I suck at social interaction and wouldn’t even know what to say. Log in to Reply however this goes i won’t sweat it Log in to Reply Run at them screaming with my arms flailing all over the place. Sometimes they fall to the ground out of awe, thats when i take them to my house. Log in to Reply don’t show them how ‘crazy’ u are about them no matter how much u like them. just approach them normally and advance by subtly showing them that you are attracted to them by giving them honest compliments nd other stuff. if they respond to you in a good way, u can be more direct that u like them. if they don’t, you can easily bail out, move on without looking pathetic. Log in to Reply My heart: “She’s cute, right?” My brain: “Don’t bother her.” I don’t bother her. Log in to Reply fuck I hope they don’t think I’m ugly Log in to Reply i dont Log in to Reply I try giving them hints, If I feel like they are interested, i straight up approach them. Log in to Reply I approach them the same as everyone else. Their shit still stinks even if they are pretty. Log in to Reply First its always good to have a plan,Plan things to talk about and dont make it about yourself,try to engage in things they like,If You Approach them ask them how they were and make it cool like say to rate it out of 10 because then you can ask them to specify and give advice and you will come across as a good individual You only live once,what is the worst thing they can do Reject You,ffs people its not that serious even if they say something out of pocket dont be sad cuz clearly they are the problem and dont deserve that kind of love,just approach them and after a while when you both are comfortable with each other ask em out Log in to Reply I act normal, like meeting a new friend, maybe paying attention more to them than anyone else there. Then later on, maybe the next day or next several, I find them on social media, follow them, and begin to text them and see where that leads. Log in to Reply It’s all about confidence. Just walk up to them and take a shot. If you miss, oh well move on. At least you took a shot. If you hit, nice. Log in to Reply try to keep a distance of at least 1m from the mirror. Log in to Reply I don’t see them as attractive. I just see them as a person. Log in to Reply Youll never mean anything to anyone, sit down and keep your mouth shut Log in to Reply I take a deep breath and walk over to my wife and give her a hug and kiss. Log in to Reply I go in with the mindset that they’ll find me attractive as well Log in to Reply I just ask what her and my kids want for breakfast Log in to Reply Just be yourself. She/he may or may not like you but who cares? Log in to Reply Simply grab them by the..you know Log in to Reply The first step is to make her comfortable by talking politely, then I add some humor, then I ask her if we could walk to xyz place and keep making interesting conversations on the way… Log in to Reply Sometimes I completely freeze. Log in to Reply Approaching? You’re funny. Log in to Reply Error error social.exe stopped working Log in to Reply Try not to stare, do whatever I was there to do, walk away. Log in to Reply Like any other person, don’t care if attractive or ugly. Guess I am lucky haha Log in to Reply I’m not really attracted to other people. When I see someone really beautiful or charismatic I’m wary. They’re accustomed to being treated a certain way and I don’t have the social skills to deliver. Log in to Reply I’ve only really actively pursued one person and it was because she was extremely hot and my window of opportunity was limited Any other time I’ve seen a person I find attractive I might be interested in I keep my expectations low and just try to appreciate their hotness and have a good interaction which hopefully leads to them being interested in me, if not at least we had a fun chat Log in to Reply Depends on the scenario, I’m very careful about the time and places I try to introduce myself to women are. For instance I won’t do it at work, the gym or a place where she might feel intimidated. Log in to Reply Just be yourself. I wasted so much time trying to impress partners and ended up scaring them off. The second I became comfortable just acting completely normal, I found my success rate rose extremely. Log in to Reply Kinda like when you see a bear, snake, or mountain lion: don’t make any sudden moves, keep quiet, and remove myself from the situation as soon as possible. Then go home, drink half a bottle of Wild Turkey 101, and fall asleep while crying in the shower. Log in to Reply Step 1. Don’t Log in to Reply ..I don’t – if I were to approach someone I find attractive and try to charm myself on them, just because I find them attractive… that’s… not really right, not quite an OK thing to do. honestly, I wish I wasn’t thinking like that, I wish I was wired another way… I almost wish I was a disgusting horny bastard who had no scruples about inviting strangers for some one on one time… but noooooo, instead I feel shame for getting sexual desires… *sometimes*, I wonder if this is because of trauma… Log in to Reply This bitch is mine. Log in to Reply No matter how attractive they are… they never really truly believe it themselves. The most attractive people I know are also the most insecure. Log in to Reply My alarm clock is bound to ring soon… Log in to Reply He doesn’t care about you. Don’t get your hopes up. Log in to Reply “whatever you do, don’t fart & don’t say something fucked up” Log in to Reply Depends on the situation and which type of “attractive” are we talking about? Are we talking about general attractive or a woman you actually like? I’m not always attracted to women who I still think are attractive (if that makes sense, lol). Log in to Reply >Whats your mindset approaching someone you find attractive? Don’t Log in to Reply Leave a Reply Cancel replyYou must be logged in to post a comment.