Woman of Reddit, how often do you notice when a guy has a random boner, and when you do how judgmental are you of it? Does it ruin your image of them if you know them?

Woman of Reddit, how often do you notice when a guy has a random boner, and when you do how judgmental are you of it? Does it ruin your image of them if you know them?

What do you think?

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  1. In public? I never notice

    If I’m alone with a guy, I’ll notice him trying to draw attention away from his pants lol

    And no it doesn’t ruin their image. It’s cute when they try to hide it, as if I didn’t already know

  2. I notice it, I giggle to myself like a middle schooler and then I forget about it. It’s biology! I’d hate to know everyone could tell when I was turned on.

  3. Unless they have sweatpants or something really obvious I assume it’s just their pants making it look like a boner I really don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy in jeans and been like omg why does he have a boner lmao

  4. i’ve only noticed it in sweats and the way their behavior switches over makes it more obvious. i just pay them no mind so they aren’t embarrassed.

  5. I was about to say that I never do, but I just realized that I saw an acquaintence this morning walk by while I was sitting down and I thought to myself, “Huh, I didn’t notice before but he seems kinda well-endowed.”

    Now I’m wondering if there are just several instances in which I never realized what I was looking at.

  6. I have never noticed. If I did, it wouldn’t ruin my perception of them. I’d figure it was a thought or wind or something causing it. I’d do my best to ignore it.

  7. The difficultly is not the random boner per se, rather it’s the subsequent attempt at “adjustment” that makes me embarrassed as you’re basically fiddling with it.

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