Would you date someone who used to make money with Only Fans and there is a lot of ‘material’ of them still all around the web?

Would you date someone who used to make money with Only Fans and there is a lot of ‘material’ of them still all around the web?

What do you think?

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  1. Wow, I’m really surprised by how casual the responses are. I think for many people that would be a deal breaker. Many are far more liberal in their opinions than they are in their actual practices. I know for me at least it would have been a hard pill to swallow, there is something very disorienting about having you partner exposed in that way. Still, if everything else is great, I don’t think it would have been a dealbreaker, but psychologically it would have required some work for sure.

  2. I’d be fine with that if she was cool. I’d care less about the “material” than the risk that she would be really self-centered and spend all her time taking selfies and ignoring me.

  3. Unlikely. I know the “correct” answer is that it shouldn’t matter and people sometimes need to do these things to survive etc. I just don’t think I’d have a lot in common with a person that goes down that route. Also, I don’t think it would be fair to the other person because if I kept how much it bothered me a secret. I’m not judging at all, people are free to do what they want and I support their freedom of choice.

  4. I’m just not interested in girls who have done that. When I’m looking for someone, I’m looking for someone compatible with myself. I have to think I will want to have children with this person. I don’t want to have children with someone who thought doing that was ok. Nor do I want to be with someone who thought that was ok.

  5. No, never. I think nudity is a form of intimacy that should be between two partners and not between my partner and untold amounts of strangers who are jerking off to her nudes.

  6. No, I do not agree with that work, as it shows she doesn’t respect herself (my opinion). If I found out my gf was doing this I would leave her. I believe in traditional family values

  7. Yup.

    Doesn’t define them. I used to work in car insurance. I don’t anymore and I would hate it if that’s how people talked about me once I was done working in that area.

    And if you’ve ever sent any kind of nude to someone, there’s always a chance that pic is floating around somewhere too anyway.

  8. Sure, as long as we are equally committed. It also most likely means their self confidence level is high, which to me is the most attractive thing about any person.

  9. If I was dating for casual fun, sure.

    If I was dating for a relationship, I would need her to be making progress on a solid career plan for when she got older.

  10. This is eye-opening haha. I never thought people are so open minded about online sex work these days. Which is good! Not my cup of tea, but Im glad all them nice girls don’t have to worry about having horrible dating life after their OF following goes away.

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