Straight women of Reddit that don’t give oral, why not?

Straight women of Reddit that don’t give oral, why not?

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  1. Depends on the dude. My husband is great, but like some of the complaints on the other thread, hair, hygiene and natural odor play a part. I also think for some reason, the odor part is sometimes a food thing? I can tell when my husband has eaten more red meat than usual, and that’s a turnoff.

    Also, when I first started having sex, I was forced to give oral by my ex-boyfriend, and he was really forceful about it. He didn’t care if I was gagging, etc. I didn’t go down for years after because I was afraid of being forced. My husband is wonderful in this regard, I never feel nervous and it’s a different feeling.

    So it’s both the physical and emotional.

  2. Why don’t like I like giving oral? Because I was orally raped and forcibly deep throated by an ex, so giving oral makes me incredibly anxious. I have to be incredibly relaxed and feel safe to give oral. I can give it and don’t absolutely hate it if I know that it’s actually okay to stop.

    If anything I feel like it’s a bit unfair to my partners that I love to receive oral but really struggle with giving it.

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