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What do you think is the bottom line reason so many people are crappy to others?
What do you think is the bottom line reason so many people are crappy to others?
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They don’t value people’s feelings or treating people with decency. It doesn’t make them feel bad or guilty when they treat people horribly. It’s not a priority to them to be kind nor to be a good person.
cause it is easier to show anger than it is to say I am hurting too
They feel crappy about themselves, so they project that as being crappy towards others
Because mankind is an inherently competitive species, and being assholes to others is a mental way of dominating another person.
Dissatisfaction with their own lives and competition, specifically the belief that if someone else is winning, they must be losing.
Lots of reasons specific to the individual. Insecurity is a big one though imo
excuses
A self centered narcissistic mentality caused by a lack of respect or empathy for anyone else’s feelings/needs/wants. There needs and wants are all they are concerned about and they aren’t even aware of the troubles or situational despair others might be experiencing.
A lack of manners, the old lady says.
I think the bottom line reason why so many people are crappy to others is that they are unhappy with themselves. They have low self-esteem, insecurity, anger, resentment, or other negative emotions that they don’t know how to deal with. So they project their crap onto others and try to make them feel bad too. It’s a way of coping with their own pain and avoiding responsibility for their own actions. It’s sad and pathetic, really.
We are all born sinners. It’s in our nature to be awful n selfish. Can be seen in toddlers even.
They are not that intelligent and have not figured out that people have to work together to survive.
Ego
On reddit, because they are jerks in real life who can get away with being crappy because here they are anonymous.
lack of meditation/mindfulness
They’ve gotten used to justifying it to themselves
Fear of rejection. I’ve had several friends over the years that were so fearful of rejection that they did everything they could to be rejected by others on purpose just so their “real” selves would not be rejected. Some had abusive parents, some were just insecure, but I think by going outside the bounds of decency they always had an excuse for why others didn’t like them and it made them feel like a moving, and thus protected target. Funny though, the strategy never worked and was, obviously, self defeating.